Five Empowering Procrastination
Tips
One of the most destructive effects
of procrastination is the fact that it makes you feel
out of control. Procrastination is like an 'invisible
force' that keeps you from doing the very things you
know you must do. With the increasing demands on our
time and attention there seems to be an increase in
procrastination as a chronic problem, especially amongst
those people that want to succeed the most. Procrastination
usually sets in when you feel overwhelmed by all the
'have to's' in life and instead of making steady progress
you take on too much without ever getting any of it
done.
Feeling out of control takes away all
your power to shape and direct your own life. It's
true that there are many things over which you have
no control, but you always have full control over
what really happens to you - and what really happens
to you is a mental process and independent of the
circumstances and events of the outside world. Being
empowered means that you realize that you already
have the power and this realization also gives you
the ability to take action. Here are five empowering
procrastination tips that can help you to reach this
realization and become empowered to effectively deal
with procrastination and inaction.
It's All Inside:
Procrastination is an internal process and although
it might feel like it's happening to you, you are
in actual fact responsible for it. This procrastination
tip can help to put you back in control almost immediately.
Procrastination is not an external force, but an internal
response and evaluation. The simple realization that
it's 'you' that are doing it to 'you', gives you the
power to do something about it.
It's All You:
When procrastination drags you down it's all to easy
to think that 'it just is' and that you can't do anything
about it. Although it feels like you have no control,
you actually do. In fact this is why you feel out
of control - because you believe that you can't do
anything about it. There are two very important beliefs
you need to develop to help you break free from procrastination.
The first is that you CAN overcome procrastination
and the second is that YOU can overcome procrastination.
No one else can do it for you and because you created
it, you can un-create it.
It's All In Your Head:
The reason why most people remain stuck in patterns
of procrastination is because of fear. At the most
fundamental level, all forms of procrastination comes
down to fear. What you don't face controls you. To
overcome the fear and the procrastination that comes
with it, you need to confront and do the very things
you don't want to do. The instant you do, you take
charge and it no longer has any control over you.
The ironic thing is that fear only exists in your
imagination - it's always something that hasn't happened
yet. Procrastination is not real - it's only the way
you evaluate things in your mind.
It's All about conditioning:
Success at anything in life relies on consistency.
The best of the best at anything are those who can
repeat their greatness consistently. The way you get
consistent is through conditioning. Your nervous system
operates through conditioning. When you do something
over and over again it becomes 'normal' and when it's
normal you don't have to think about it - it becomes
automatic. The challenge is that this principle works
both ways. Whether your conditioned responses support
you or whether it pulls you down, your nervous system
does not make that distinction. If procrastination
is your conditioned response you will always feel
out of control, simply because that's what you've
'learned' to do automatically. You simply need to
'recondition' yourself to a new response; to teach
yourself to respond in a different way..
It's All about awareness:
Procrastination does serve a purpose - and a very
important one as such, but only is you are aware of
the benefits. We only procrastinate about those things
that have value to us. At some level, either directly
or indirectly, you believe that taking action will
benefit you. If it didn't it would not bother you,
right? Be grateful for procrastination and use it
as a guide to 'know' what you need to act upon. Being
aware of this fact, and developing an awareness for
what you do and fail to do can empower you to be in
charge of yourself on a much higher level.
When you are empowered you are in charge,
and even if things seem to go wrong on the surface,
underneath you know that you have the power to deal
with it effectively. Procrastination is disempowering
and it takes away your ability to take immediate action
and deal with any situation. Always remember that
you are ultimately in charge of you. Tomorrow will
be today tomorrow. Don't delay. Act!
About the Author:
Deon Du Plessis from Overcoming-Procrastination.Com
is a former chronic procrastinator who never managed
to get anything done. He now teaches some of the most
powerful strategies for overcoming procrastination
in A Course Of Action, a FREE online course. You
can Enroll Here >>
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